Learn forgiven

Possibly you has got a statement or treatment that necessarily not to receive, because annoy, misunderstanding, or maybe have other sides that tried to make relations between you and your friend be broken. All of them could happen and we never know the incident that not wanted by us like that. I reminded from statement from my friends, and even many times I heard many people say with me, “All could happened in this life!”. Although we can’t suspected all incident in this life, and include like this incident.

Okay, back to topic. Phenomenon at now occasionally made us difficult to forgiving. Heart seemed has closed to accept situation like before (normally), and finally all of that become a revenge in our self. This condition will make we become sick, insane, offended, that finally have impact in ourselves condition. With situation like that, sure we will uncomfortable and also adding of nervousness of us, more over possibly you have sensitive characteristic so that you will always thought about this problem.

You can imagine, if all of us could to learn forgiving and also tried to apply in this life. If we could like that, we could to minimize the incident that often happened in around us. Cultivated the sportsmanlike attitude, big-spirit, as well as tried to understood our situation as human that near with wrong. With friends and also family, if you want to learn and could to forgiving according to me could begin mindful of all matters that has done to you, maybe their support or grating when you have difficult position yesterday or several times ago. If you remembered their mistake, you can’t forgive him, and also precisely you will be annoyance in your self with him self. And afterwards, if you get one treatment from people that you unknown, tried to think positive. Maybe this person have problem and your self become sacrifice, maybe his deliberate, or maybe their fault. Think positive could open your thoughts to be rational so you can keep your statement, attitude and action too. If this incident can’t to rationalized, if his not use physically, ignored and leave him.

Nobody perfect over the world, and personally our self maybe has doing mistakes with friends and other person. Didn’t we yearn for peacefulness? Tried to forgiving, life could more beautiful.