Self confident

Sometimes we undergone of no self confident, that happened usually cause by a problem which happened in our self. The situation in fact is very bothering, but we feel difficult to eliminate, more than anything else otherwise there is arising out motivation from our self. No self confident like a phobia, this situation which is not balmy in front of crowded people, we tend to do not dare to showing ability of us which in fact.

Feel no self confident in our self blocked your desire or dream to not yet become fact. Many people not dare to show ability our self though our self have something that search or required by people. Example, I first have taken a fancy with a girl which enough beloved, but I don’t have self confident to try to coming near it. At the time in conscience and my mind just, “I fear to coming near, because I don’t have anything to become a boyfriend with him”. So that I canceled sufficient till I try to bold to approach with this girl. After some week, pursuant to information my friend, in fact this girl loved me. Than, finally I cannot become its lover because that girl in the reality have had boyfriend that not yet old of become him.

One of the small example can be made by lesson which is very worth, what effect from not self confident our self. Proper is likely ‘sneak’, human being is not like this. Because human being created by God as perfect creature. So, don’t become sneak, dissipate to feel no self confident our self by doing. Action is away of to dissipate to feel no self confident in our self or have cold feet.