Show your smile

Smile, could make condition of us be better. Smile, could make second has passed have meaningful. Smile, also could make reduce of tension as well as made the enemy become us friend. And with smile, we have got the sympathy and even attracted someone.

Still many more the benefit and meaning from smile, and we know maybe this matter must to apply in our life. If we realize about this matter, maybe many people that could survive in their life, especially when have condition that should survive. Possibly like got disaster, accident, or even when you sad. Based phenomenon, smile could influence character and also the conduct. Make we feel calm in facing anything situation, include when must to make clear your problem. In this case, many times we can see someone (or even many people) to look sad when got a problem, so their face could influence us. But this example, you can try to compare how if you seen people keep their smile? You can imagine about this. Fresh, friendly, and that importance will made positive image in their self. But, if you always smile and smile alone, hihihi… I know maybe you has make everyone frightened with you :-D

This matter has made me realize, anything in this life sometimes unknown. Maybe you will happiness, normally, or may you will sad. We can’t prediction about that. But facing with calm will controlled your self. Be panic, angry, or gloomy only will made us look bad. Remember, God will not give us test which to exceed capacity of us. But in reality when that condition came, occasionally we will feel to live in one space that don’t have side. If illustrate, we like don’t have way and aim because don’t know where we will gone. In fact, in this condition we have many ways or method to pass this situation. May will to right, left, backside, or will look what have in the future.

At the same time this is for my self because last day ago I got one accident that made me to keep my smile. But it’s ok, forget it. All problems have solution and you feel that was not a problem, so that is a fate. But that important, facing with calm, all of them was the maturity process. And last, with smiling you will seen be better.

Learn forgiven

Possibly you has got a statement or treatment that necessarily not to receive, because annoy, misunderstanding, or maybe have other sides that tried to make relations between you and your friend be broken. All of them could happen and we never know the incident that not wanted by us like that. I reminded from statement from my friends, and even many times I heard many people say with me, “All could happened in this life!”. Although we can’t suspected all incident in this life, and include like this incident.

Okay, back to topic. Phenomenon at now occasionally made us difficult to forgiving. Heart seemed has closed to accept situation like before (normally), and finally all of that become a revenge in our self. This condition will make we become sick, insane, offended, that finally have impact in ourselves condition. With situation like that, sure we will uncomfortable and also adding of nervousness of us, more over possibly you have sensitive characteristic so that you will always thought about this problem.

You can imagine, if all of us could to learn forgiving and also tried to apply in this life. If we could like that, we could to minimize the incident that often happened in around us. Cultivated the sportsmanlike attitude, big-spirit, as well as tried to understood our situation as human that near with wrong. With friends and also family, if you want to learn and could to forgiving according to me could begin mindful of all matters that has done to you, maybe their support or grating when you have difficult position yesterday or several times ago. If you remembered their mistake, you can’t forgive him, and also precisely you will be annoyance in your self with him self. And afterwards, if you get one treatment from people that you unknown, tried to think positive. Maybe this person have problem and your self become sacrifice, maybe his deliberate, or maybe their fault. Think positive could open your thoughts to be rational so you can keep your statement, attitude and action too. If this incident can’t to rationalized, if his not use physically, ignored and leave him.

Nobody perfect over the world, and personally our self maybe has doing mistakes with friends and other person. Didn’t we yearn for peacefulness? Tried to forgiving, life could more beautiful.

Quite, remained, or tried to better

Undergo the life not easy that like imagine, and all of that need sacrifice as well as hard struggle that needed consistency. Occasionally many people that made his problem be something that hindered their wish against something matter, like disappointment, sadness, condition, or anything that. May times this matter has made us be pessimistic, frightened to gain all of hoped that want of us. Basically we can’t predict of future, but at least we can try to doing best matter in this life. Struggle and underwent day by day was the better than only quiet or though about fate.

Everyone have difference motivate to survive, and that was a realty that interest and really unique too. Because difference of motivation, we can see the uniqueness from their respective character from each individual. Even, we can see people around us who had hard struggle only to satisfy their requirement for their life, without hope, without plan to dream, and even without have to think how to be life with quality. That have in their mind just submitted and also accepted this condition like that. Whereas in another thing, maybe we have found people which have the big hope about his future, with thousand hopes, built a dream, and even they lived seen like crazy with hard work. Ya, two differences who has big meaning.

Everyone wish to have quality with quality, but to realizing that really forced us to hard work. But must realize of us, power of mind that we have could be facilitate to take a step, and sometimes give the inspiration as well big guidance that extraordinary. Because love, revenge, authentication himself, anything that the reasons to survive in this life in fact that was an obligation. Love and revenge could change be positive energy if we could to join him become synergy. Revenge sometimes gave the miracle about actual identity, and that could make you be better, and also could make you be bad from before. However, motivation was a guide in our life.

Source of inspiration

Child characteristics sometimes could make us be smile and even laugh. What was done and said sometimes like not yet normally matters. Plain, not understand about anything, and his world only playing. Maybe like that if us to drawing with general about their world.

If you back again to seen about the uniqueness world of child, possibly like his laugh, behavior or his words, sure you have to get inspiration from him. Although they said matter that apart from your capacity, but that was the uniqueness from child. When their said, “I want to fly with my plane”, or maybe “I want carrying you to the moon mom…”. Sure you will smile, though possibly you regarded him just his expression. But if paid attention, that he said sometimes could become your inspiration, with his words that plain and created with spontaneously, but his words have extraordinary meaning.

I love child, and when I meet a child, I always “say hello” with him and try to be a person that interesting for him. This habit has giving me a lesson that when we speak or joked with him, we must entered their world and try have attitude like a child too. When I realizing about this matter, in fact their world really beautiful and make me enjoying though be like a child. Really different with world of us at now, many problems and responsibility which must to resolved. Yeah, if remember again I want to have child’s world. Laughed, joked and running together with my friends.

That was a small example from child characteristic which could make us more be wiser and also loved him. Like anything and however of condition they needed the affection so be able to be a person like normally and also continued all of they hopes.

Review of life

Time has gone with unrealized, occasionally we forgotten that all which has face it will feel like yesterday. If thoughts about this I remember a statement which said from the wise person, if you not realize with day by day which has walked, so until of that time you still were asleep. This is classic statement which maybe has you listen, but if we understood more apparently, this statement had meaning that was the reality. Than moreover you cannot feel yesterday if you passed without doing the matter which useful as well as the best in your life.

Thinking like this maybe always have in anyone, and when you realized about this you will know that evidently this life just adventures with several struggles which must to do for survive, and survive. Yeah, maybe like this perception about life.

You can try to reviewing again about all, repeated back to think from first when you were becoming a child, and until now. You will feel that you have several miracles and experience which you have. And this moment cannot repeat again, you just could to remember him, only remember. When you running with your friends and at this moment maybe you rarely to could meet him or even you could not to meet him.

That was a little example review from the life reality, and all will walked it is like you that always to make step your foot until at this time. Feel like just now, but in fact you has get many lessons and experience, and if you realized about this, just two feeling which you had from yesterday, that is only the happiness and disappointed feelings. But don’t becoming all of that as the problem. Take lessons from life which has passed and try to become a person which more better.

Story about receptionist

In one night were windy tight, a pair old person run broke through rain in to lobby hotel that small in Philadelphia, hoped got a room only for one night. But disappointedly his found this hotel has full served. “Have three big conference in this town”, said receptionist with smile and friendly. “I worried all hotels in this city has full”.

The couple than turn over and will go, than this receptionist say, “But I cannot leave guest like you alone in the middle of rain at hour one morning. Do you want to rest in my room? Indeed not luxurious room, but at least could make you comfortable and passed this night”.

This couple objected to make the receptionist be expelled from his room, but the receptionist urged him. “Don’t worry with me, I will okay”, he said, and finally this couple accept offer from receptionist.

Tomorrow morning before the couple gone from hotel, the couple praised receptionist, “You is good employee that must be general best hotel in United States, maybe one day I will built hotel to you”. This receptionist smile and say thanks with this old couple.

Than next two years, the receptionist than receive one mail invitation. Inside have a ticket and a stripe of note, after to check in fact sender this mail is old couple which has help two years ago. This paper reminded receptionist in one night that he has helped this old couple and this mail invited him to visit they couple. Despite in fact he has almost forgotten his incident, than this receptionist try came this invited.

Finally they meet in station at New York City and he was asked in city corner from 34^th street and 5^th avenue.

“That…”, the man old said, pointed in new building that big and strength as well as decorated with red stone in each corners, “this is hotel that I build to you lead”.

“Are you jokes…?”, this receptionist say while laugh.

“No, I’m not jokes”, said this man old with smile.

Happiness is a choice

Talk about problem of happiness not have to completely, more than if we discussed him based from side that different. But problem about happiness, apparently a problem that occasionally quite often become complaint for some individuals. Always complaint about situation himself that regarded unhappy, always regarded him self so far from word of happiness. Not rare if many people going or walking and not know where their will going only to found a happiness.

Than if we discussed short meaning from happiness which obtained from inside a household, many believe that happiness will be created if really complement each other. Because if complementing each other will be created atmosphere that comfortable, but not significant that was believe like that could this said absolute will get the happiness.

Happy or unhappy was a choice. If we accept situation or reality that available in ourselves, we must feel the happiness. Moreover, with power of mind we could get happiness. If you regard happy with yourself circumstance now, you will definitely happy. But when you thought about being the reverse, precisely will more aggravate your situation, including your personal psychological.

So, to get happiness was not a matter that difficult, anyone wanted the happiness. Your thoughts will influence personal circumstance and atmosphere in your heart. Think positive from each incident and situation which you have, because with grateful and sincere feeling, we will more find become easy to accept realty.

Made nature as place read

Sometimes you feel difficult of looking of an inspiration as material idea to look for new atmosphere when you do routine of your work. Difficulty of looking for inspiration was caused of feel bored that emerged result from your routine everyday. One example, you try search a new method to done your work be effective and efficient, than you feel confuse to look solution was exact to deal with this situation. This matter made you pushed to look an inspiration or I call this matter with enlightenment.

Search a place that could give you become different sometimes was difficult, but in fact that be based on to the condition in yourself. Because if you feel most protracted with situation that must which you face it, you will feel increasingly difficult to found the enlightenment. With visiting a place which have different atmosphere, that was more better than you must maintain feel of bored with you have. But if you not have much time to do because you can not leave your work, maybe you can try to visit interesting place that have in round your residence or your work.

If you have boredom cause work of routine, better you should not force yourself to work again. Trying to do small relaxation with only for walk, so you will find new matter which be made yourself be better than before. I have experience about this matter, I must sit in front computer to do my task which much to completed, though this matter just 5 days, but I feel really extraordinary boredom. So I lost and don’t have idea to done this task. But I try to visit a place which round in my residence which in fact often has to visit, I get a new spirit. I know and realize that only for a few minutes, but this effect really extraordinary. Than I’m again get the motivation that create with natural from my self, and even I precisely get new inspiration from incident that seen in going for the walk.

Read the atmosphere evidently was a fascinating matter, because we could see and get many actual matters which have a lesson. Becoming nature as place read give of meaning which proved that evidently we is not anything. Because outside there many matters that could be found us.

Beautiful difference

A pair of newlyweds was walking while held hands at the forest in beautiful summer. They just ended dinner with together. Newlywed’s couple that too enjoyed amazing togetherness when they heard a voice from distance: “kwek, kwek, kwek,kwek…!”.

“Try hear honey, that is chicken voice”, Said the wife. The husband than heard the voice thoroughly.

“No, it’s no true. That is not chicken voice, but duck voice”. Answer the husband. “No, I’m sure that chicken voice”, answer the wife too.

“Impossible. Voice a chicken is ‘kukuruyuk’. If the duck ‘kwek, kwek, kwek’. But it is a duck honey”. Said the husband which begin be angry.

“Kwek, kwek, kwek !”. This voice heard again.

“You hear this! It is duck voice!” said the husband. “No my honey, it’s a chicken… I’m sure”, said the wife while threw face away.

“Hear okay! It’s D..U..C..K.., a duck! You understand!” said the husband while angry with the wife.

“But it’s a chicken voice” the wife still stubborn. “It’s the duck voice the duck, did you don’t know the duck voice and the chicken?” answer the husband.

Heard voice again kwek, kwek, kwek. Before the husband said a something that not better to said, the wife has crying while saying, “But it’s the chicken voice”.

The husband which seen the vague tear on his wife’s eyelids, finally he remember why he want to married with this woman. His face be softened and he said with intimately, “I’m sorry my honey, I feel you true, it’s really the chicken voice”.

“Thanks honey”, said the wife while held hands of his husband.

“Kwek, kwek, kwek”. Hear again this voice in this place (in this forest). Accompanied their step that when walk together in one love.

When understanding this story, we will remember the priority. Many matters that were more important compared with looking for whoever was true about that the chicken or the duck. Sometimes we often feel with our statement, but actually that not sure really true. Difference opinion not the reason to could become together in the difference.

Love is a Motivation

Anyone had the wish to get the couple that the understanding, the lover, clever, if could be rich and good-looking. All the categories must be the wish who, and even almost anyone wanted the couple that like that. However not meant us must get our couple in accordance with our wish. Because occasionally the feeling like or the love could emerge with suddenly, and without being realized by us we like someone actual not the criteria that was wanted by us.

If the love spoke indeed about us often eliminated some of our logic, nice that the girl or the guy. Because of could not be ignored, the love could change someone become melancholic and even not like ourselves actual. Usually the person if was feeling feel in love, he tended quiet, like to be isolate, smiles personally, and that was serious him there also is one that is restless. These matters were natural, and must be experience by anyone.

In undergoing this life we must need the friend or someone who could be made the friend in liked and the sorrow as well as the motivation himself in undergoing this life. If you had felt how not comfortable him when you must do and through a situation with personally, you must feel that what was done by you where just normal. However when you did something with the person who was loved by you, definitely you would more the spirit and carried him out with as well as possible. That was a small example how the love could affect ourselves, and still many other of example. So, not I had a melancholic attitude just because of falling in love, but tried to be able to mutually member and received sincerely. By doing this matter we will feel that all that will be carried out by us were felt more was easy because of the existence of a motivation that emerged from inside him self. Like anything the work and really was difficult, if we had a motivation that emerged from inside him self definitely we could carry him out.

Self confident

Sometimes we undergone of no self confident, that happened usually cause by a problem which happened in our self. The situation in fact is very bothering, but we feel difficult to eliminate, more than anything else otherwise there is arising out motivation from our self. No self confident like a phobia, this situation which is not balmy in front of crowded people, we tend to do not dare to showing ability of us which in fact.

Feel no self confident in our self blocked your desire or dream to not yet become fact. Many people not dare to show ability our self though our self have something that search or required by people. Example, I first have taken a fancy with a girl which enough beloved, but I don’t have self confident to try to coming near it. At the time in conscience and my mind just, “I fear to coming near, because I don’t have anything to become a boyfriend with him”. So that I canceled sufficient till I try to bold to approach with this girl. After some week, pursuant to information my friend, in fact this girl loved me. Than, finally I cannot become its lover because that girl in the reality have had boyfriend that not yet old of become him.

One of the small example can be made by lesson which is very worth, what effect from not self confident our self. Proper is likely ‘sneak’, human being is not like this. Because human being created by God as perfect creature. So, don’t become sneak, dissipate to feel no self confident our self by doing. Action is away of to dissipate to feel no self confident in our self or have cold feet.

Face it problem

Sometimes a problem change your situation become not as usually, more than anything else if the problem concerning about life of person. Maybe, some people is not easy matter in fact of condition of like, sometimes there is which tend to become calm, gloomy, to isolate, etc. That also determined by personal characteristic which a fact, there we earn to comprehend like what the nature of us in fact. Because usually we not know exhaustively like that our characteristic each though possible we know a little from characteristic ourselves.

In experiencing life we have the problem which different each other, so also with others. Even so the condition of or situation faced at our self much the same to with others, but not meaning you have feeling which equal to that felt by the people. Fair if us try to have empathy or try to feel such as those which others feel. But feeling our the empathy never can feel is same as which other feel.

Problem is not something that have to be parried, but a way which is true you have to take. As far any we run from problem, as far that also the problem jail of you. Behave cordiality represent one of the applicable solution if you is true have an affair which likely very queer once. It is of course, we not want to be a sneak which only can run and hide from existing before. By face it, be confidence all any problem or problem that will finish. Try face it with clear thinking, calm and self confident. Because, if you have a problem, you have can to learn from your experience.

Learn from mistake

You have feel that you have conducted biggest mistake in your life ? Whoever have conducted mistake, have presented natural as human being which not get out of wrong decision. A fair matter if you recollected or recollect one from some (even many possible) mistake we which have conduct. By recollecting we discover our self position become is better the than at that time, because we have got a experience and study which worth.


A biggest mistake sometime make our self reside in on course defensive (corner), we feel anything fall to pieces because we which have conduct. But basically, mistake we which have do it because two matter : first because intended, later we take decision to do so because of some speculations which in fact just for the reaching the target of which wanted. But i sure that i mistake happened many because of second factor (though that have the character of to be intended), because of the conducted from what wanted ourself. So that, this moment have to a regret which is on at the time create a commitment not to repeating and take learn which consist it. But no rarely some of use which again repeating it, so that arise next mistake.


I become be remember a valuable lesson which i experience some times ago. I see a chick fallen down the top of tree which at the time precise me under tree, when he fallen possible regret deed which have conducted. In a second i fetch up and standing to see its struggle, but the chick exactly again flap its wing to be able to with its mains on the air. The bird possible the condition of which in fact, that he its time not yet try to fly like its mains and other bird. The occurence remind me a action which shouldn't be conducted, but in the reality by conducting mistake i understand when i have to conduct a action and ought to be done is not true.


This picture we which have a made slip, we try to realize one of many desire him which which to be reached for. Though we sometime not result or correct unintentionally when than us conduct a study is very worth to a efficacy process and also forming of our spirit which in a fact. Because i sure, later in a moment later you will not repeat is same mistake. Like any condition yourself surely wish a better of than you reside in mistake circle which have been conducted.

Wake up than do it

Curing smart or disappointment which secondhand difficult liver it is true. Each and everyone have the way of which different each other in searching solution to overcoming. Whether that failure of plan, life, business, love, and or the problem of which have made dissolve us bersama. But there is also which so enjoying so that cannot apart from him, as respects to that do not bother its life and not yet terfikir to start new sheet.

Here I feel natural by difficulty when us it is true stay in the position, rather than me have empathy, but because me also often experience of smart which in fact I do not wish. Sayapun sure you also it is of course possible oftentimes experiencing. felt Respon and conducted by our self even also different each other, because seeing as queer as what smart which experiencing of. Otherwise do/conduct repair at our self, its impact very is having an in with is way of us experience life, like is lazy, there no enthusiasm, seen is drawn, stress, frustasi ( so that eyebrow become its nine poleness), etc.

Otherwise improve;repair all that, we will progressively drop behind. Don't assume world have desisted, but realize that we tread on at earth which continue always rotate. Time which have elapsed, cannot return. Wise people tell, “ Let loss a pay dirt than losing of time which do not be exploited”. Because where even also will never there is selling time, whereas our doom closer.

its nucleus, if us wish to wipe out that smart immediately block in and act. Allah still give the beauty of and colour of warni we to pass by morrow, do us wish to close eyes when beauty of that in fact there is before ? Optimism attitude sometimes give a brilliant idea and even bear a very extraordinary innovation. Benjamin Franklin tell, “ hearting experience always contain Iesson”. is person, do not dare to regret a smart though that because mistake of me. But I assume that is process discover a kindliness than us try later from fact truthfully have happened.

Be confidence with God

Human being very worry with bitter all condition, disappointed and sorrowful. But have never sorrowful with easiness, reached for bliss and popularitas it. wise and Wise people is one who can interpret bitter and difficult condition, becoming a maturation process go to bliss. Successful nobody without resistance. On the contrary one who is cretin is one who are jumpy with existence of challenge, failure and acrimony.

There is two human being group in failure attitude. First is one who always smile in a condition any including when lighted upon by failure. Because weeping, lament, more than anything else wreaking by destructive will not create efficacy, except exactly will only sorrow melipatgandakan which have happened. second, one who is failure attitude will very reaktif, emotional, world seakan-akan have crack of doom at the time. People feel if failure immediately do not be spilled sulkyly, paling or fury, hence forever he/she will not regret like hopeless again day morrow.

Step human being in its life as a experience mount mount, climb very menanjak. But human being time will stop for to see vinicity, view will become broaderly. Human being will see broader reach and " insuffiency" from a world of in under will look because human being will see circumstantial and higher. By mounting higher again, human being will be discharged from kepicikan exist in under. Human being feel bolder and more free. And human being impel higher with more and more beauty of which is seen.

Remember God promise, God will not give out of the sphere difficulty of ability of human being...

Life not instant

A lot of wishing anything completely quickly and easy to, though conscious us to get something surely require struggle and effort. Any which is by instant it is true basically also require effort. Plenty among us see result of from which have been reached, sometime we conscious not that us in fact have struggled furiosly to get we what have feel.

If conversing to the effect that this, now quite a few producer making and marketing all products of instant ( any of its product category and type) by marketing easy product in using or consumption. There is product which can make rich swiftly ( that i don't know what product category, hi..hi..hi…), no wonder a lot have provocated which have on the market. I sure in fact a lot of among us knowing and realizing that a efficacy got non by easy and a flash in the pan. Efficacy which is instant will very is influencing of character or attitude in step hereinafter, more than anything else if that efficacy is not from our own tiring. In this case because we not through a period to difficult that in fact is a study which is very worth.

To you which possible feel have succeeded ( in any aspect that), try review return. All that have been got surely need heavy struggle and process, even sometimes have to allow the release of soul and feeling for the shake of realizing what us envision. Any of that efficacy form ( big or small goodness) I very cladding with a period and struggle which have been passed compared to got efficacy swiftly. It is true a fair matter if us wish that efficacy process can be taken a short cut, but remain to must be done by which is ‘ play fair’.

Its supposing step on straircase, we surely start from lowermost doorstep child. Though possible for us can to be direct hop to third or second doorstep child but bukanlan way of which is ‘ play fair’ if us wish to take a ride most doorstep child of top with a doorstep again. Its impression confuse and logical caw ?!?